So my girlfriends mother and step father are what I would say pretty religious people.(attending church more than 3times a week) They have only been married for about 4yrs, and they live in a very small community in Southern Oregon. They are both in there late 50s. She owned everything before they met, Really nice ranch, cars and guest house. He had an old broken down mid 80s camaro and was a cook in a crappy dinner living in someones basement.
Anyways they are really broke now cant even afford to pay the phone bill, ranch is getting really run down, had to sell a couple of cars, and he now has this secret lair in the guest house supposedly doing a "computer business". And on top of that he spent all of HER retirement money on the stock market last year and as I said have been broke ever since.
So this really pisses off my GF and her 3 sisters to see there mother live this way, and not being able to call there mother to check in.
So they have asked why he doesn’t get a job several times to pay for the bills and upkeep on the ranch. Every time he says no I have computer business, (which doesn’t make money IMO).
My question is, do you think as a so called religious man that he should be providing for his wife the way most husband and wife’s do?
Is he living high on the hog at her expense, since he had nothing before and just draining her financially?
I do believe in God, Im just haven’t gotten as far up the trail with him as most of you have.
Should we just mind our own business? Does it say anywhere in the bible about providing for your wife?
Thanks I hope this makes sense
I almost forgot, He’s burned the rapture in to the head. Saying going to be any time now.. Another reason he doesnt want to work..
If she doesn’t’ mind, why should you? Money is not what makes people happy. Just think it does. When she has had enough, she will deal with it.