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Is this normal.

I am kinda hurt cause she lets her dog a Doberman eat right at the table in its very own chair, but my baby is unsanitary….How do I best handle this.
NOTE:She lives on ranch and no hotel/motel near by.

Outside? Really?!? No, that is not normal.

I would totally understand if she asked you to go to another room, but it is completely ridiculous to ask you to exit the house. Honestly, I would leave…but if that is not an option or not something you want to do, then ask her why she is behaving this way and tell her how uncomfortable it makes you.

17 Responses

1. luv.bug06 Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 4:22 am

   WOW thats really something…
   Im not sure what to say about this
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2. Chase Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 4:40 am

   Outside? Really?!? No, that is not normal.

   I would totally understand if she asked you to go to another room, but it is completely ridiculous to ask you to exit the house. Honestly, I would leave…but if that is not an option or not something you want to do, then ask her why she is behaving this way and tell her how uncomfortable it makes you.
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3. Heaven L Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 5:16 am

   um you need to rethink calling her your best friend, because she certainly isnt. Ive never heard of something so obsurd, i wouldve just left, shes treating your baby like a disease and thats bull. dont put up with that crap. what a bytch
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4. Dee D Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 5:24 am

   If you ask me, which you are, I wouldn’t stay there. That doesn’t really sound like a friend. I would say something to her, something along the lines of " Why can the dog be at the table but I have to change my babies diaper outside?"

   I just can not believe that.
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5. pamela r Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 5:57 am

   no, it’s not normal, but it’s her house and she has the right to ask you to follow her weird rules. if you are that bothered, try asking for a reasonable explanation, or cut your trip short and get the heck out of there!
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6. BABA BOOEY!!!! Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 6:45 am

   well, i have heard of dogs eating diapers so feed the dirty diaper to her dog at the table.
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7. arial39 Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 7:25 am

   time to pack up and go home then, i would not stay anyplace that i wasnt allowed to change my baby inside, especially when the dang dog is eating at the table (that alone would be enough to make me leave though) thats telling you she thinks less of your baby then she does her @$$ licking dog. it can lick its privates then eat off the dinner dishes?!?!? please. id go home. she doesnt sound like much of a friend.
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8. shesosweet Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 7:36 am

   i think you should tell her how you feel, maybe she’s doing this in a joking kinda way. politely ask her why it is she’s behaving this way just to get a understanding and try to make your stay at her home as short as possible.
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9. atlas_junkie Says:
   October 1st, 2009 at 7:45 am

   OMG! THAT"S RIDICULOUS!
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10. Dude Man Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 8:22 am

    not normal
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11. Little Man's Mom Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 8:56 am

    WHy is the bathroom not ok? You’d think that would be fine because everyone poos there.

    If she won’t even stand for that, it is time to cut your visit short without making plans to go back
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12. U asked I answered.No suga coatn Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 9:19 am

    I would say don’t visit her anymore. Obviously she does not like children that much so why subject yourself to getting your feelings hurt.
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13. Alia's Mom Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 10:09 am

    And this is your "best friend"? You sure??
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14. GOING ON 3,ITS A BOY!! Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 10:47 am

    i have never heard of anything so stupid. she sounds like she is very controlling. i bet this isn’t the first "weird" thing that she has done, asked you to do, or requested of someone else? she sounds like a pompous twerp that has to have control over every situation. if i was you, i would leave. and before you do, tell her why. mention the dog too. tell her it is unsanitary for your child to eat at the same table that a dog eats at,diseases and everything else he does. if you cannot leave, i would make it to where you could. good luck!!
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15. momto2Es Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 11:19 am

    Does she poop outside?
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16. cindy Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 11:47 am

    to be honest, i would pack up and leave.
    it’s her house, and her rules and if she doesn’t want diaper changes in her house, then that’s her choice.
    but it’s up to you as to whether to subject your child to this treatment. that is your choice.

    explain it her simply with "this is your home, and i respect your choices about diaper changes. but as i have such a strong difference on opinion on this issue, my baby and i are going home. we’ll visit again once she/he is toilet trained. otherwise, you are more then welcome to come visit us any time"
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17. Melissa Says:
    October 1st, 2009 at 11:53 am

    Its her house…sorry
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